Thursday, August 26, 2010

my definition of love

The other day, Noor asked me what's my definition of love. It got me thinking. I have been through so much, but have I really ever loved?

I asked myself a few questions, but I still have yet to find the answer.

So, have I really ever loved?

Love, from what I heard, is self-sacrificing, selfless etc etc. Well, you know... definitions by the book. and these definitions are not necessarily applicable.

After years and years of going through it all, I realised, there is little I know about love. I can't come up with a proper definition of love. It just happens. But I have trust in God, that He will, insyaAllah, answer my prayers. And I think He heard my cries for help to open .

I realised it's important to love God first, then love yourself, before u are able to love anyone else. I learnt that the hard way. Took me a few years to realise it. But Alhamdullillah, I see it now.

And hence, in conclusion, there is no hard and fast definition of Love. But believe that it is there. It might have been there all along... you just didnt realise it. It might be unexpected. It might be shocking. It might not be any of the above.

But what it definitely is, is that Love is wonderful.

Posted by L|v|nGdEaD b|tCh at 1:17:00 PM